Thursday, June 18, 2009

Outlook....

Hello friends.
Just could not sleep last night. Something was bothering me . I was thinking about my conversation with young women who was able to escape cancer spreading by early prevention and regular check up. She was bitter about not being able to have more children and talked about being unhappy . I had very different outlook on her situation. I feel that you have to concentrate and be thankful on what you have rather than feel sorry for what you could have -in her case she has 2 healthy ,beautiful kids.
If you think about our daily routine and news we listen too, there is very little of positive.
Its easy to go with a flow and drag your existence ,but try to find positive in every day life.
You will see ,how much happier you will be. Just simple smile and thank you to a girl behind coffee shop counter will make her day.Whatever you do ,whenever you go -try to bring goodness . I try to reach out to people that hurt me ,that feels right to know that I'm better person.You don't have to go to extreme ,but reserved interest and participation in persons life when in trouble or lost -takes you to a different level.
Sammy is OK. We met new hospice doctor few days ago.He stated that Sammy looks good.
I said its the love he gets and all the hugs and kisses from family. That is why Sammy is still with us -I know that he feels the love and care every day at home. Would we ever give Sammy up to 'Special' care facility? Never. He is our angel and he belong with us.
Count your blessings .
Sammy and Mom

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

you are amazing and teach me so much of how to appreciate life challenges. I do tend to withdraw from people who hurt me but i will try to learn from you and reach out. however, it is so hard! How do you do it? may hashem bless you and your family and may hashem grant chaim shmuel ben chana a complete and speedy recovery!